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Uplift! The Blog at ROAMcare

A weekly roundup of ideas to Uplift! yourself and where you can join in lively discussions to make ROAMcare what we are.

Moments of Motivation
 

A dose of Motivation is the remedy you need when dealing with challenges or just finding some extra motivation to push through the day. Be inspired with these small doses of positivity drawn from our lives and experiences.

The Last Day

If you were told today would be your last day, no mistake, no extensions, no second chances, this is it, what would you do? Be honest. The answer you give, the HONEST answer you give, says a lot about your character.

 

It is a question that is asked often enough that an internet search returns many, many answers. Based on those answers, most people don’t understand the assignment. People have said:

  • Travel to places I always wanted to visit

  • Finish a dream project

  • Apologize for hurting others

  • Transfer all my real estate and holdings to my children

 

Others had a decidedly narcissistic approach.

  • Get drunk all day with people who will miss me

  • Hope the good side of me dominates everyone’s mind and I will be fondly remembered

  • Tell everyone who ever said they would do something for me some day that today is the day

 

Even the altruists have trouble with that single day restriction

  • Get all my money from the bank in small bills and give it away as I walk down the street

  • Donate all my possessions

  • Donate my organs

 

We looked at close to one hundred answers and found only one acceptable answer:

Instead of thinking that it's my last day we should rather live every moment with positivity, happiness & most important is with compassion. Live your dream each day, thank God that He made you open your eyes in morning.

 

We wonder if that person is a regular Uplift reader. Not to overstate our contributions to society but we do regularly say live every moment, live for today, live love share, and thank God for giving you this day. Not to say that any of the other answers are wrong. There is no right or wrong to how you want to live your life. After all, it is your life and how you live it is your choice. But most of the answers we uncovered can’t be done in a day. Or without unlimited resources. Or without the assistance of others.

 

As far as we are concerned, the only thing we can do if we were told today would be our last day is to live today like we always have, be present and hope we can make a difference in somebody’s life before the day is over.

 

Surely a single day is enough time to live a life of love, to express that love to your loved ones (quite aptly named), and to reach out to those you most egregiously wronged with a sincere apology. But if you lived everyday like that, you would not have be scrambling on your last day concerned you might miss a loved one, or a wronged one, or on misplaced energy or expectations. You would not be concerned with them because you would have already done that yesterday, and the day before and the day before that.

 

What would you do if someone told you today is it, your last day on earth?


Man scratching head facing question marks on gray background. Text: "The Last Day",

 

2 Comments


I love the idea that if we lived every day loving others, caring for others, humbling ourselves when we're wrong, we won't be scrambling on that "last" day to make up for lost time. It's a choice to live with empathy and compassion--especially if we don't receive that from others. But if we all did this--and you two have been masterful at encouraging folks to live for today, love today, and care for others today--we'd be in communities that actually listen and care for one another. Well done.

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roamcare
Oct 08
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Thank you Dayle.  We’re pretty sure that if you don’t live each day as a day of love, no amount of scrambling is going to help you on the last day. It’s a challenging topic to bring up. Most people don’t want to be reminded that they have an expiration date, even as benignly brought up as in this post. That could be some people’s excuse for not living each day with compassion for others. No a good excuse but it could be one. Just so much easier to live a good life to begin with. 

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